Category: Dear Juliet

Dear Harm-Self

I am truly, truly sorry this had to happen to you! But as Mary Oliver once said, “Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift.” I know it is very hard right now. […]

Nervous Boyfriend

Juliet, My girlfriend and I have been dating for several years (since before Freshman Year) and are in our Senior Year now. I was wondering how do I ask her to move in with me after graduation. I already have a job lined up and I’m starting to […]


Dear Juliet, I’m writing in to talk about love advice dealing with a boy. How do I go about telling him I like him if we’ve been friends for so long. I want to admit my feelings for him to him, but I’m scared it would ruin the […]


Dear Juliet, I read your first response on the Thielensian website and enjoyed it. I was hoping you could possibly help me also. I have high functioning autism. Because of this I’m not good with social queues such as flirting or picking up on “signals.” Is there any […]

First Response

Dear Juliet, I have a problem. I’ve been seeing this guy for a month, and it’s been great, but my grades are suffering. How do I balance my new relationship with all the work and studying? I don’t want to lose him. What do I do? Sincerely, Help […]